Mirroring: The Skill
This is the training tool for communication. It's purpose is to train people in the 52 distinct skills necessary for making speakers feel heard and making listeners relaxed while listening to anything.
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MasterTalk: The Language
Handling the language of Master/Slave Relationships
Continue reading →Map of Relationships: 2003 Version
This is the whole story of intimate relationships. I wrote this early version in the September of 2003, after all the pieces had fallen into place in my head.
Continue reading →Reliable Membership: The Essay
I believe all humans require reliable connection with other humans. I see this as the principle drive that moves us, and holds us, together in partnership. At any given time one partner will probably need more and one will probably need less connection. Managing this becomes a challenge and sometimes an enormous stumbling block. Here are the principles and the solutions.
What kind of Community are we designed for?
An article from 1999, that shows the development of my thinking at that point about the role of a community in safety for the individual.
Continue reading →What to do when he/she won’t talk to you.
Amazingly this is a very common occurrance and there is something you can do. I am particularly familiar with this …
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