Practical Application of Communologue
This is a writeup of an application of Communologue in a project that I completed 2003-2004.
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Facilitating Dialogue: A Strong Technique
This is a technique I use in the office when people are very reactive about an incident. I use it often. I have noticed that I refer to it in one of my most popular articles – on Resentments. Yet, nowhere have I written up how to do it. So, here goes.
Continue reading →It is Not Fair! The Testicle Principle
All issues and problems that couples bring to my office are fair. Each person can lead the way out of the trouble. All problems EXCEPT ONE, that is. For one problem, there is only one person who can lead in the solution. This is the “Unfair Problem.”
Avoid becoming a Bully, yourself!
A conversation with a relationship therapist about avoiding becoming a Bully.
Continue reading →Working, Long-Term, on your Marriage / Relationship
Working for the long haul. Let's say you two make it through learning the skills critical to "getting along." Now what? Here's the view after you get over that first hump.
Continue reading →Gullible or Skeptical: Trust
Being gullible or being skeptical. How much? I was talking to another old guy last evening and we both shared …
Continue reading →An Application of Communologue: United Way of Kootenai County
By Donald L. Gibbon. Northern Idaho sounds like it should be about as far away from 21st century social ills as you could get and still have access to modern America’s social benefits. Coeur d’Alene, known to demographers and government bureaucrats as CdA, has a population of only about 35,000, but it’s still the largest town in the state north of Boise, some 460 long miles to the south.
Continue reading →Avoiding Transpersonal Pernicious Behavior in a Group
Some more thoughts on Guiding a Communologue Group. A new guideline added on Nov 1, '06.
Continue reading →Case History: Trust
A wife asking for help at recovering trust for herself in her relationship after she and “he” have separated, come back together, and she no longer believes that he had been faithful during the separation time.
Continue reading →(audio) Listen to the Master/Slave Lecture
Here is the Master/Slave Lecture AudioFile. FREE DOWNLOAD The Master/Slave chart is here. The Master/Slave Essay is here.
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