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Making Amends

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 16, 2006 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012 10

Use this process when you want to apologize for something you have done. Its a way to say "I'm sorry" that works.

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Posted in Healing the Past, Skills | Tagged dialogue, fault, feelings, mirroring, share, validation | 10 Replies

An Application of Communologue: United Way of Kootenai County

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 11, 2006 by Al TurtleJuly 7, 2023  

By Donald L. Gibbon. Northern Idaho sounds like it should be about as far away from 21st century social ills as you could get and still have access to modern America’s social benefits. Coeur d’Alene, known to demographers and government bureaucrats as CdA, has a population of only about 35,000, but it’s still the largest town in the state north of Boise, some 460 long miles to the south.

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Posted in Diversity, Peace Building | Tagged dialogue, feelings, Imago, mirroring, point of view, pulling, safety, trust, validation | Leave a reply

Guiding Communologue

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 2, 2006 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2019  

A list of interventions that can be used to create and maintain a dialogical group atmosphere. A new guideline added on Nov 27, '07.

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The Odd Dialogue Practice

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 18, 2006 by Al TurtleMay 3, 2012 4

This is a beginner, Validation exercise. You are Uninformed at that point when you think your partner is doing something odd or that “doesn’t make sense to you.” If you were informed, you wouldn’t think it odd, and you would see your partner’s sense. Use this practice sheet to get good at Validating.

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Posted in Communication, Diversity | Tagged dialogue, feelings, make sense, mirroring, point of view, validation | 4 Replies

Notes: Guiding Dialogue (5 July 2006)

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 5, 2006 by Al TurtleFebruary 10, 2019  

Notes for a Class on Guiding Dialogue

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Guide’s Role in Communologue

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 3, 2006 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012  

Thoughts on the Role of a Communologue Facilitator.

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Glossary of Terms

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on April 7, 2006 by Al TurtleJanuary 24, 2023 2

This is an often requested list of brief definitions of my words. From time to time I will add to this list. Insert these words in the Search function on the front page of my website to see the articles where I use these terms.

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Posted in Diversity, Main Page, References, Reliable Membership | Tagged boundary, codependency, codependent, dialogue, fault, feelings, Imago, make sense, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, passivity, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 2 Replies

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part V

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part V, the Other Doors.

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Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part II

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part II, Blind Alleys.

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Earn it or Spend it: Interpersonal Capital

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on January 31, 2006 by Al TurtleMay 28, 2014 2

A simple look at ways of getting people to do what you want and like you. "What can you do to make them inclined to do what you want. What are you doing that makes them not inclined to do what you want."

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