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Al’s Communologue Guidelines, Principles, Rules

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 10, 2021 by AlFebruary 17, 2021  

This is a very brief (bullet format) summary of the Rules and Principles I have used in guiding Communologue.

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Peace Building: The Essay

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on May 6, 2014 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

When two people come together, they have a choice: to move toward Peace or to move toward War. The choices and the actions/habits that go with them are clear when one studies couples who are successful at bringing lasting Peace and those who are not.  (Sadly, most people I meet chose war!) What do you chose?  Here's my essay on this situation.

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Posted in Diversity, Peace Building | Tagged dialogue, essay, feelings, Imago, make sense, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, narcisism, peace, point of view, safety, share, trust, validation | Leave a reply

Peace Making: AV Class

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 2, 2010 by Al TurtleJune 26, 2012 2

Here is the class I use to distinguish between the communication habits the lead to strive, struggle and distress and those that lead to peaceful coexistence.

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Posted in Peace Building | Tagged dialogue, passivity, peace | 2 Replies

Peace and Domestic Violence

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 10, 2010 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

Recently I gave a 3–hour presentation at a conference on Domestic Violence. The title was "Remediating Bullies and Their Makers: A different look at Domestic Violence." Here is the background and one of the Powerpoint presentations.

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Current Violence: Take a look

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 10, 2010 by Al TurtleJuly 7, 2023 1

So I get to chat about the current spate of violence in the US and my thougths about its origins and its current manipulation in the media. If you are looking for solutions, I will have to think some more.

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Posted in Main Page, Peace Building | Tagged fault, feelings, pulling | 1 Reply

Practical Application of Communologue

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on April 15, 2007 by Al TurtleJanuary 3, 2014 4

This is a writeup of an application of Communologue in a project that I completed 2003-2004.

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Posted in Diversity, Peace Building | Tagged boundary, feelings, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, peace, point of view, pulling, safety, trust, validation | 4 Replies

An Application of Communologue: United Way of Kootenai County

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 11, 2006 by Al TurtleJuly 7, 2023  

By Donald L. Gibbon. Northern Idaho sounds like it should be about as far away from 21st century social ills as you could get and still have access to modern America’s social benefits. Coeur d’Alene, known to demographers and government bureaucrats as CdA, has a population of only about 35,000, but it’s still the largest town in the state north of Boise, some 460 long miles to the south.

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Avoiding Transpersonal Pernicious Behavior in a Group

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 2, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 26, 2012 1

Some more thoughts on Guiding a Communologue Group. A new guideline added on Nov 1, '06.

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Posted in Boundaries, Peace Building | Tagged boundary, dialogue, feelings, make sense, master-slave, mastertalk, point of view, safety, share, trust | 1 Reply

Guiding Communologue

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 2, 2006 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2019  

A list of interventions that can be used to create and maintain a dialogical group atmosphere. A new guideline added on Nov 27, '07.

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(audio commentary) Guiding Communologue – Interventions

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 20, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 26, 2012  

This is an audio file of my thoughts about guiding Communologue, listing and explaining the interventions I believe are important. …

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