Mirroring Benefits
What is mirroring good for? Here's a list.
Continue reading →Mirroring as a Training Tool
This is a true story I sometimes tell people who are first learning to use Mirroring and who are resisting practicing.
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MasterTalk: Samples of Dealing with it.
I use these three terms (Master, Slave, Friend) to refer to the three positions from which and to which communication can be addressed. These are similar to the positions in Transactional Analysis of Parent, Child, and Adult. No one is a Master. They just speak, and perhaps think, from the Master position. No one is a Slave. They just speak from the Slave position.
MasterTalk seems extremely easy to identify in conversation and writing.
MasterTalk: The Language
Handling the language of Master/Slave Relationships
Continue reading →Map of Relationships: 2003 Version
This is the whole story of intimate relationships. I wrote this early version in the September of 2003, after all the pieces had fallen into place in my head.
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Reliable Membership: A Chart
This is the chart I share with couples who are experiencing this trouble.
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